Before you log off that dating app (or throw your phone against the wall in disgust) let me give you hope. There ARE some pretty awesome men out there, looking for a wonderful woman like you.The problem is it’s getting harder and harder for you ...
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With understanding comes compassion. Life begins when you ask the right questions.These are two “isms” that often fall from my mouth, and when something happens that shakes our belief systems we need to take a step back and apply these two principles...
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How frustrating is it to spend time thinking up a text that’s not too hot, not too cold, open without being too long, signalling interest without sounding too needy, then waited with bated breath… only to get a one word response in return? ...
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Dear ChantalHow do I get people to see that I am more than my looks? I’m sensitive, passionate, a teddy bear for the most part, and a great dad, but that never seems to convey itself in the flesh.What people don’t see past is my shaved head, goatee, ...
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Boy, did I ever have my share of mistakes.My first love was someone my whole family hated. “He’s such an asshole!” my sister kept saying. Meanwhile, my mom did her best to ground me enough to keep me from him, and my dad had a fit when he found out I...
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Dear Chantal,I hate to say this out loud, but I really don’t think I’m pretty enough to find love.I’m in my late 30’s and have been single for almost two years now, and I’m seriously thinking of just giving up. I’m tired of trying, tired of meeting p...
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Stand back, cause I might make your head spin. And the fact is, it’s time for someone to turn this idea about when to share that first kiss upside down. We’ve been putting the cart before the horse for too long, and I’m about to put the horse ba...
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Dear ChantalI’m hoping you can settle a disagreement between my friend and I.I’ll be the first to admit I have my issues; I come from an abusive background, and I’m sure it’s the reason why I have such a passionate temper and can be pretty insecure a...
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By now you probably agree with me that it doesn’t make sense to commit to strangers. I mean, this whole “Kiss and see where it goes!” dating style we’re using is so ass-backwards it’s no wonder singles are miserable AF.Kissing someone with your finge...
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I’m going to be brutally honest here, getting attention from a guy means absolutely nothing.Let me clarify.A Guy who doesn’t want anything from you but your sweet booty when he wants it will pay lots of attention to you. Text messages up the yin yang...
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