I won’t lie, flirting is an art. You not only have to know how to get a man’s attention in a way that will trigger his happy spots, but you also have to have the courage to do it! Guts, technique, execution, leaving an impression, are all the steps t...

Dating in your 50s, when you’re not in your 50s, probably sounds like the best time in your life to date. Kids are grown, your house is paid off, you’ve got a boat, and a sports car, and you’re living life for all it’s worth!You know the truth. Datin...

Once you’re in your 60s, you’ve got self-confidence in spades. You know yourself, you respect yourself. And you aren’t going to change for anyone.And that’s what’s going to get you in trouble!Your generation has fully embraced the “whatever” expressi...

Dating in your 20s is like…absolutely nothing else.Let’s start with dating and technology. Ten years ago it wasn’t obscure for someone not to have a cell phone, even in their 20s. Now it’s absurd if a twenty-something doesn’t have a smartphone, table...

So you’ve caught a man’s attention and initiated contact with “Hi” and “How do you know the host?”. Well done!Now what?Before your palms start to sweat, I’ve got good news for you. Men are easy to talk to. Yes, really. The approach may be a little di...

Don’t like the way your dating life is going? Change it!Is there something happening in your romantic life that you don’t like? Do you choose the wrong guy? Don’t like where you go on dates? Do you think you spend too much time waiting for him to tex...

I’m posting this because I had this exact same conversation on Thursday with the four ladies in my Dating Smart Online group.Before I met my husband I didn’t have a specific “type”, but if you’d asked me to write a description of my perfect man, I pr...

What do I want?So simple, so sweet, so full of… je ne sais quois.You should see peoples faces when I ask that question, it’s like I just deposited something sweet yet new on their tongues. Their head tilts back and to the side, a small, almost happy ...

Ladies, let’s talk about kids and the fact you don’t have any, and you’re already [INSERT YOUR AGE HERE]. You’re upset about this, and understandably so.It’s likely that your mom had kids by the time she was your age, or that you’re divorced and...

One of the greatest challenges of dating in the 21st century is pride. Pride stands in the way of communication, of intuition, and, above all, it makes us put too much emphasis on the question, “who pays for this date?” When you let pride take o...

Are you tired of wasting time on Mr. Wrong? Are you done with entertaining Mr. For Now? Are you ready for Mr. Right? Of course you are! And you’ve never been more ready than you were at 12:00 a.m. on January 1st. You need a dating strategy! You’re go...

Dear Chantal,HELP! I’m so tired of online dating. It’s not that I don’t get responses to my profile, it’s that every guy I talk to ends up being a jerk!Everyone seems great at first, they’ll be really sweet and we’ll text and chat just about every da...

Dear ChantalI’m from New York and I’ve got to say, your no kissing for 3 months rule wouldn’t work here. The environment is super-fast paced and if you don’t wow somebody pretty quick they’re going to move on and date someone else. And here in the Bi...

Donald Trump will never be Man Of The Year.I’ve devoted my career to teaching women the difference between a Man and a Guy to help them avoid the sort of disrespect and heartbreak that comes with allowing someone self-serving into their lives. Donald...

It depends.See, I’ve got nothing against the whole notion of a casual, purely sexual relationship. We’re sexy beings, designed by Mother Nature to seek out sexual partners and deeply enjoy what happens next. Able to detect signs of fertility so subtl...